Anyway she is trying to be my new best friend these days despite her bad behavior in the past. She found out I am pregnant is is trying to send be a huge box of baby books and stuff. She likes to live in others happy moments and now she wants to ogle over my pregnancy and I am just supposed to act like nothing happen and go along with it… F that!

Also, one of NewscasterHottie’s old coworkers, TinyVindictiveGirly, that was a total back stabbing bitch while he worked with her is now coming around trying to give me advice and be my buddy. Now that NewscasterHottie isn’t her rival she is all warm and fuzzy. Well what about all the issues she caused back in the day?

If you are new to the blog and the characters go a head a read the posts about these bitches. There is tons of drama there folks!

Anyway, I understand forgiveness and when people are willing to admit to reacting badly or being vengeful and nasty I can forgive and forget. I can even forgive and forget if they aren’t willing to admit to anything as long as they acknowledge my feelings about it all.

However, when the tactic is to just brush it all under the rug and pretend it never happen I am not so forgiving. Especially when I have been honest and straightforward about my feelings regarding their behaviors. At least have the courage to face the fact that you hurt someone, especially if you want a relationship with them.

For me if the bridge is burned and they don’t care about the damage done then I don’t care to further the relationship. Plus how can you truly ever open up to and trust someone after such a vengeful and planned attack?

I hold a grudge and that is the way I like it, it keeps me safe from the back stabbing bitches and makes life easier.

What I don’t get is the stores that insist on shoving the holidays down your throat earlier and earlier every year. We were at the local Walmart over the weekend to buy some vacuum cleaner filters and belts. It was just barely November and there were carols blasting throughout the store. AND all the Christmas display stuff was up.

I am not okay with hearing holiday music in stores before Thanksgiving. What is worse is being subjected to the frenzy of holiday merchandising throughout stores. Give me a break, we need to take one holiday at a time!

This is just more insentive for me to spend all my holiday shopping bucks online and not in stores like Walmart! So have your been bobmarded with the holiday spirit yet, what are your thoughts on it? Love it or hate it?

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So now I have a damn futon in my living room that takes the place of our comfy couch. The couch is in the garage covered in plastic and the fucking futon is trashing up the living room and it’s absolutely uncomfortable. The metal bars jam right up my ass and the mattress is so hard that it makes my back hurt.

So I have resorted to watching TV and blogging in my bed. I know it is like I am a bum huh? Too freaking bad though. The bed is the most comfortable place in my house right now and I need to be comfortable.

Don’t think I have it made though, the bed is over 10 years old and has large indentations where NeswcasterHottie and I sleep. It needs to be replaced badly. I am actually thinking of setting fire to it so we can get a new one already.

That is about the only way I’ll be able to justify spending so much to replace a mattress we already have. Man being uncomfortable makes me pissy!