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Secret Confession: I hold a grudge

Posted on November 19th, 2008 by User Image

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People who have burned me have been coming around like crazy these days. Remember CrazyRantingLady you know the one who wrote me a nasty email because she didn’t like my feelings?

Anyway she is trying to be my new best friend these days despite her bad behavior in the past. She found out I am pregnant is is trying to send be a huge box of baby books and stuff. She likes to live in others happy moments and now she wants to ogle over my pregnancy and I am just supposed to act like nothing happen and go along with it… F that!

Also, one of NewscasterHottie’s old coworkers, TinyVindictiveGirly, that was a total back stabbing bitch while he worked with her is now coming around trying to give me advice and be my buddy. Now that NewscasterHottie isn’t her rival she is all warm and fuzzy. Well what about all the issues she caused back in the day?

If you are new to the blog and the characters go a head a read the posts about these bitches. There is tons of drama there folks!

Anyway, I understand forgiveness and when people are willing to admit to reacting badly or being vengeful and nasty I can forgive and forget. I can even forgive and forget if they aren’t willing to admit to anything as long as they acknowledge my feelings about it all.

However, when the tactic is to just brush it all under the rug and pretend it never happen I am not so forgiving. Especially when I have been honest and straightforward about my feelings regarding their behaviors. At least have the courage to face the fact that you hurt someone, especially if you want a relationship with them.

For me if the bridge is burned and they don’t care about the damage done then I don’t care to further the relationship. Plus how can you truly ever open up to and trust someone after such a vengeful and planned attack?

I hold a grudge and that is the way I like it, it keeps me safe from the back stabbing bitches and makes life easier.

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